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What is Your Preferred Conflict Style? Take this quiz to find out.
What's your opinion about anger?
Anger is a useless emotion. It's better not to talk about it because people just end up getting upset for no reason.
Anger is part of being human. It's important to vent your anger when it comes up.
There is important information in anger. It's important to pay attention to it and then express it in a calm rational way.
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What do you prefer to do if you're in a conversation that starts to escalate?
Stay calm, take some deep breaths and listen closely to what's being said.
Change the subject to something non controversial.
Start thinking of important counter-arguments.
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How do you tend to respond when someone shares unpleasant emotions with you?
I feel closer to them and appreciate the honesty and vulnerability. I prefer this to superficial conversations.
I feel awkward. I'm concerned about saying the wrong thing. I don't like drama in my relationships.
I am glad they are opening up to me. I try to help them calm down and talk about it.
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After an argument with a romantic partner how do you prefer to make-up?
Make-up Sex
Process the misunderstanding so both people understand what went wrong to do a better job next time.
Have each person say something like "sorry we fought" so we can quickly get back to the day.
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Which do you value the most?
Honesty
Respect
Collaboration
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True or False?
Most problems in relationships are unsolvable.
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It’s true! All the more reason to focus your energy on everyday behavioral change instead of trying to change your partner’s personality or core values.
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It may seem like bad news, but the good news is that you can put your energy into everyday behavioral change instead of trying to change your partner’s personality or core values.
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In the 1970’s couples were instructed to hit one another with foam bats to vent their frustrations. What did subsequent research reveal?
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The more we express anger and resentment, the angrier and more resentful we become. Therefore it is damaging rather than relieving as previously thought, to vent to the person with whom we are angry. (This is different than expressing anger clearly in a non-blaming manner)
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The more we express anger and resentment, the angrier and more resentful we become. Therefore it is damaging rather than relieving as previously thought, to vent to the person with whom we are angry. (This is different than expressing anger clearly in a non-blaming manner)
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True or False? Babies with happily married parents develop more quickly than babies with unhappy parents.
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A study John Gottman revealed that “babies raised by unhappy parents suffered developmentally. They lagged behind babies of contented parents both intellectually and emotionally. Speeche occurred later, potty training was delayed and the ability to self-sooth was slow in coming.” Gottman 2007
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A study John Gottman revealed that “babies raised by unhappy parents suffered developmentally. They lagged behind babies of contented parents both intellectually and emotionally. Speeche occurred later, potty training was delayed and the ability to self-sooth was slow in coming.” Gottman 2007
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Which of the following is not a strong predictor of separation?
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Of course yelling at one another is not ideal, but it is nowhere nearly as toxic as the other communication problems.
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Of course yelling at one another is not ideal, but it is nowhere nearly as toxic as the other communication problems.
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Which of the following is a good way to improve your relationship with your teenager?
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Managing stress is one of the most important factors in a happy relationship. How are you and your partner managing stress together? Are you team-mates or opponents?
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Imagine this scenario…You come home from a long day at work and see (and smell) that your puppy has pooped on your brand new Oriental rug. As you’re cleaning it up, the phone rings and it is the love of your life on the line, (the one who forgot to put the puppy in her crate) asking you to pick him/her up because he/she missed the train. What most likely happens next?
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The best way to support someone who is stressed out is to…
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Most of us just want to feel understood when we are upset about something. If we problem-solve too early we are giving an inadvertent message the the person is unable to solve the problem on their own.
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Most of us just want to feel understood when we are upset about something. If we problem-solve too early we are giving an inadvertent message the the person is unable to solve the problem on their own.
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Which of the following is NOT a good way to decrease stress with your partner?
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Go for a decaf and you’ve got a great idea. During stressful times we often increase our caffeine intake to try to move faster or stay awake longer, but this takes a toll on your body and will make it harder for you to relax.
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Go for a decaf and you’ve got a great idea. During stressful times we often increase our caffeine intake to try to move faster or stay awake longer, but this takes a toll on your body and will make it harder for you to relax.
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8 out of 10 Americans report that they are stressed out at work. This stress has significant impact on family relationships. The best way to protect your relationships from being damaged is…
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Bottled up stress can turn into resentment. It’s better for both to feel like it’s the two of you against the world.
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Bottled up stress can turn into resentment. It’s better for both to feel like it’s the two of you against the world.
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You can tell that something is bothering your partner but you have no idea what. All you hear is silence. What do you most likely do next?
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When people are overwhelmed, they are often physiologically flooded to the point that they can not think rationally. They need a break to catch their breath before they will be able to have a productive conversation about it.
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When people are overwhelmed, they are often physiologically flooded to the point that they can not think rationally. They need a break to catch their breath before they will be able to have a productive conversation about it.
